I am thinking of blogging from many months ago. But why was i hesitating all these dayz ?? its all bcoz of the fear about my English vocab and grammatical accuracy.. It has become a vogue to use quality words in blogs and to get a small laud from our close ones.. of course , it has immense pleasure.. But as i started blogging now, i do not mean to say that my English has become good. but surely my thoughts cannot be no more set in a cage.. It has to be let out..
I just want to ask you a simple question ..could you define yourself ?? yea common rite now, just close your eyes, think about yourself and have a definition for yourself..hmm, if you have defined yourself with your name, profession,your own characters, i can say you are sensible and my favorite .. if your definition includes your religion, state, country, language, fan of someone , fan of some sports then i can say you are enjoying your life but u r bit senseless and not much worried about the above questions, and your subconscious mind is dominated by exterior things.
Have yo ever arose a question to yourself, y have we born ?? where are we moving towards ?? what is our objective in life ?? what should be our objective in tis beautiful life.. ?? what will give us a permanent happiness ?? No one is much bothered abt these vital ques.. hmm, i can say it in a better way, all are bothered abt these ques, but their actions and solutions aren't really achieving those..each one of us are divided by numerous categories like continent, country, state, city, area, profession, religion, fans of big stars, etc etc and it goes on... but i think the primary and natural classification is oly by sex (ie) male , female which was done by the almighty..all the other classifications are made by we human beings and physical boundaries..
When we go back to the origin of man kind .. then existed only the natural classification.. later as the population increases other classifications started.. i very well remember , which i studied in my 12th tamil lesson, in which it was said, a brave and brainy person among a small group had a stick in his hand and started walking and a small group followed him against animals in forests... Then he was called as a leader and a crown was given to him as a compliment.. { now then my imagination about the establishment of these classification starts }.. as the population increased, the number of brave persons also started increasing.. so there was a mutiny or ego to whom should lead the group.. as a compromise ,each brave person took a set of ppl with him to walk against forest animals.. there started the classification..later this brave persons of every group was named as KING..
As the human population kept on increasing , each group of ppl took their own region as their native, and they started feeling some rights over that... due to the natural resources tat was available at their place, and to enjoy those they started neglecting other ppl inside their region... their started the establishment of countries...And for millions and millions of years existed the kingdoms , kings, etc..
Due to colonialism, imperialism, kingdoms were dethroned.. and as an ending of these (isms) started the present government style , the so called democratic government .. and to establish a healthy society, constitutions , ministry system etc etc gave its birth.. like tis many more classifications got established as a part of something else or as an individual element..but am least bothered about all these fucking craps..I don't want to constrain myself in a particular group.. Am one among a men in this earth.. thats it..I don want to get dominated by any of the classifications.
Now in everyone's life, studies, job,money, status, and other responsible duties became inevitable..Omg!! could u please show me one person in tis whole earth to say, am totally satisfied and happy with what i have, with what am,.. i could find none.. let it be A.R.Rahman, who has won the Oscar.. or Sachin Tendulkar who is called as God of cricket .. even they have their next step to take and lot of dissatisfactions in their heart... Therefore it s almost impossible to attain permanent happiness unless a single thing is changed which is highly difficult indeed..
I just want everyone to start feel, that i got everything in my life and my life is so colorful with what i have..U need not change tis big world,ppl etc, but to attain a permanent happiness, it s enough of changing your mindset and control yourself..everyone should be so optimistic ..Thats the only solution...
Well i also analysed problems which may affect our happiness even after being so optimistic.. i could say 2 major problems.. They are our physical health condition and LOVE ... Love ,as soon as u hear it, u may think it as a feeling between a guy and a gal.. but here i mean the feelings between, everyone and you , and everything and you...among the two above said problems, physical health care is almost easy to practice in life..
But the second feeling Love or Wish ,Omg it is almost impossible for all ppl to surpass it..where this love affects us?? , It is wen we love some one, and they also reciprocate it, and suddenly due to some other feelings like jealousy, greediness, relativity in love, or due to the natural full stop{ death } that love comes to an end.. at that time it gives an unendurable pain..love can also be on non living things , say on our property, vehicles,and it can range from our pen, shirt, to wealth valued some crores { which is once again a man defined scale }...
So what i consider as a solution for tis love is.. love everyone as long as u can..Love deeply, love truly , but always be aware that, it may go off your hand any time due to any reason..Everyone should attain a maturity and knowledge that anything or anyone is tis world is not permanent in our life time.. and obviously you aren't permanent in some one's else life..So make yourself and ppl around you happy wen the relationship is existing and don worry wen it is not in existence..but wat we do is, during existence of relationship we hurt others and try to move away from them and when they are out of our reach we feel for them..same goes for materials.. wen u have, enjoy it.. wen you dont have , don feel for it... Adopt this attitude..
So i suggest,be satisfied with what u r and what u have { includes both materials and relationships } and let us perform our duties with our caliber...many times it is a requisite to behave selfish, to be happy ,, i believe, being selfish is not bad,,but see to that your selfishness doesn't affect others happiness..but be with humanity... if your happiness and goals doesn't bother about humanity, i wish to say only a single line for you...
Please Go and Die..We don't need you on tis earth...
Whatever happens,, life has to move on... move on people...
Let happiness for us and around ourselves be our ultimate Goal..
